Most of us are travelling down the road of life at full-speed. But…The road that this world puts before us is filled with curves… and it’s leading us AWAY from God… it’s leading us to where God is not… that is the definition of Hell. The Psalm tells us, Lord, teach me your paths. Jesus teaches us throughout scripture how to live – you might say, He teaches us the path that is straight and narrow. But the world makes it hard to follow that path…. We want to widen the path and make it easier to travel our own way… do what WE think is right and just. Most of us are tempted by the curvy side-streets, seeking excitement – and then we keep going down that road until SOMETHING makes us change. Something or somebody knocks us to our knees and we REALIZE that we really ought to get back to the straight and narrow.
That’s what Lent is for. The church puts this T in the road so that we have to slow down and decide which way we’re going to turn. Without this intersection, we might never have a reason to slow down, much less turn around. We sit at the intersection and crane our necks looking down one way and the other. One way leads to the superficial happiness that this life offers – the other leads to more of the same dusty, bumpy roads. Which way will we turn? Right, Left, or turn around? How many T’s do we need to come across before we finally decide that driving our own direction isn’t working… How long til we repent and turn back toward God… ?
What does it look like? To turn back to God? My first thought came to me at a funeral Saturday morning. Too often we get on the road of unforgiveness with somebody – and it only ends when we go to the funeral home. In the end, we regret never having turned that relationship around. What else does ‘turning back to God’ look like? We do the things that the Scriptures TELL us to do: love our neighbors, give up our selfishness, pray, fast, give to the poor, and go to Church.
Some people say, “I don’t need to go to church… I can pray in the woods.” That’s Great! How long did you spend in the woods praying today? Last Sunday? And the Sunday before that? The same argument could be made that I don’t need to take my wife out on a date,…”I can tell her I love her at the supper table”. That’s great. Did you tell her last night? The night before?
You and I have to develop habits… we have to set aside time to do the important stuff. Without a community around us to help us stay on the straight and narrow, It’s too easy to allow time to just slip right by – and we look back and think – what have I been doing? Think about your own life… did you accomplish anything yesterday? Do you often find that hours and even days just seem to disappear, and you’re not really sure what happened?Each of us has to look at our priorities in life. We might all be able to sit here in the comfort of this church and agree that - if my life was perfect, I would spend 1 hour a day in prayer and reading the Bible, 1 hour exercising, 1 hour spending time with my kids, 1 hour just spending time with my wife, and 1 hour doing something for someone in need.
Obviously, we can’t physically do it all every day… but do we do them at ALL? Would you agree that each one of those things SHOULD be on our list of most-important-things? Sooo….how much time did you pray yesterday? How much of the Bible did you read? How much time did you spend exercising? Spending time with your kids? Your wife? Doing something for somebody in need? Volunteering?
We live our lives as if we’re immortal – as if we’ve got all the time in the world.. so we constantly put-off those things we ‘should’ do. It’s easy to get on the highway of Procrastination and never turn around. One of the CD’s I just listened to said, “Live your life with the End in mind”. In other words, when you’re on your deathbed looking back, what will you regret? What do you want people to say about you when you’re gone? Will their first statement be, “He really loved Jesus”? She really gave selflessly? She was always a good listener? What do you WANT people to say? What do you want GOD to say about you?
Figure out that answer, and then make a plan and DO it… NOW… so there will be no regrets.
A lot of people don’t really start LIVING until they realize that they are dying. So live your life with the End in mind.That is the genius of Ash Wednesday and Lent. This is the T in the road to give us a chance to turn back to God; to check our priorities. To remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.