There’s one line in the second reading which I think sums up all four readings, including the psalm: Beloved, we are God’s children now; let that sink in… repeat. Let me see if you understood: who here is a child of God?
If I’m a
child of God – and you’re a child of God - then that you my sister – you’re my
brother. Today we’re celebrating the
Holy Family – yeah it’s about Jesus/Mary/Joseph. But it’s MORE than that: WE are Family. (I’ll avoid singing it like the Pointer
Sisters) Does that make you nervous to
be in such a big family?
Personally,
I grew up in a large family, something only a few people today can even
comprehend… .but it’s ‘normal’ to me.
My parents
had 11 kids – and since that wasn’t enough, we became a foster-home, where we would
take in infants before they would be placed with an adoptive family. Adding one more person to the mix seemed
natural to us – and actually added some variety to our lives as we would fight
for our turn to hold or feed the baby… but we didn’t fight to CHANGE the baby.
When I was
about 15, a cute little blonde-haired, blue-eyed two-year-old girl came to live
with us. For some reason, her Mom couldn’t
take care of her temporarily, so we opened our doors to this little angel. After 4 years of living with us, her Mom made
the heart-wrenching decision to put her up for adoption. We had a family meeting to discuss what we
should do. It was unanimous – we would offer
to adopt her. Seemed only right: she was
already part of the family unofficially – so it would be cruel to her (and to us)
to rip her away. So, she became my
sister – the youngest of 12 siblings.
How big of a
deal do you think that was to my sister?
She probably didn’t realize it at the time, but that one act of adoption
changed everything in her life… forever. It changed her very IDENTITY. She went from ‘no family’ to ‘huge family’. She went from ‘no inheritance’ to well… a
share in the inheritance. She went from ‘no
home’ to ‘home for life’. She was even given
a new name: Seibert.
Question for
you: what choice did SHE have whether
she wanted to become a Seibert? I’m sure
they asked her opinion, but is a kid her age really capable of making that kind
of decision? In the end, the decision
was made by my parents and the judge.
That’s what happens in an adoption – it’s not the child’s choice… it is
a legal action of the parents who say: I
choose you to be in our family… I will love you forever… I will give you a name…
you will live in our house, eat at our table, we will teach you the best way to
live and you will have an inheritance with the rest of the family. Notice – it’s not the child’s choice – it’s
the parent’s choice.
THAT is also
what happens in Baptism. God himself ‘adopts’
us into His family. That’s why we baptize
infants…. Baptism is not OUR choice – it is GOD’S choice. God himself makes a covenant with us… a
family-bond. He says, I choose you to be in MY family… I will love
you forever… I will give you a name… you will live in MY house, eat at MY
table, I will teach you the best way to live and you will have an inheritance of
eternal life with the rest of MY family.
That one act of adoption changed everything in YOUR life… forever. It changed our very IDENTITY.
YOU became a
BELOVED SON OR DAUGHTER of God – that’s what Paul is saying in that second
reading. To be a Child of God means we
are not orphans…. We have a Father – Jesus is our brother – and every one of us
here is brother and sister.
Do we
REALIZE what that means? THIS (Church)
is our home. Does it feel like home to
you?
I remember
when a cousin came to spend a couple nights at our house. We awoke one morning to find him in the
kitchen rooting through the cabinets to find cereal for breakfast. To this day, it shocks me that anyone would
have the nerve to dig in the cabinets when it wasn’t his home. Maybe that’s normal to some of you – but even
us kids who lived there wouldn’t go digging in the cabinets unless we
were given permission to do so. We were
certainly WELCOME to ANY food in the house – because it was our home – but we
respected our parents’ authority to decide what we could eat and when.
Which leads
to another line in the second reading: we
have confidence in God and receive from him whatever we ask,
As children
of God – every blessing in heaven is available to us! We’re not visitors in God’s house, THIS IS
OUR HOME! However, we respect the
authority of our Father and ASK for the blessings He bestows. We’re not orphans – we’re not visitors – we’re
not thieves…
Beloved, we
are God’s children now;
Notice the word ‘now’…
this is not something we’re waiting for when we die or at the end of time –
this is NOW. God has already adopted us
when we were baptized. We already have
access to all the cupboards in heaven.
If you pick
up the phone and call your Dad right now – how would he react? If my dad was still alive, I would have the
right to call him anytime and he would joyfully talk with me – because I am his
son and he knows me by name.
That’s the
kind of access we have to God the Father!
He know each of us by name… personally.
We are not
part of the Christian family because of anything we’ve done but because God
said so. There is nothing we can do
that will make God love us less – and there is nothing we can do that will make
God love us MORE.
See
what love the Father has bestowed on us
that WE may be called the children of God. And …so …we …are.